Men can have multiple orgasms without ejaculating. You heard me right – multiple orgasms without ejaculating. Though they seem to occur simultaneously, an orgasm takes place seconds before ejaculation. If you learn to stop, control and/or delay coming, you can have an orgasm, retain your erection and come again and again. It takes practice and concentrated awareness of your body, but you can’t go wrong because you end up having an orgasm either way, and you can practice alone or with your partner.
Without ejaculation, the semen is reabsorbed into the body and the orgasmic contractions massage the prostate, which actually enhances health and vitality. You get all the pleasure combined with the added benefit of knowing it’s good for your health too! Sort of like a tasty low-fat meal.
There are a number of books that talk about this Chinese Taoist technique and philosophy. I would highly recommend The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know. Its authors are Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams (a local Santa Cruz author and teacher).